Stop Controlling, Start Understanding: The Key to Successful Modern Leadership

by Kim Fitkin - 6/6/2023

Stop Controlling, Start Understanding: The Key to Successful Modern Leadership

Theres a mistake I often see in leadership.

Telling people how they should feel.

Remember this. Your team members courageously share their feelings.

You reply, “You shouldnt feel this way.”

You just built a wall.

Modern leaders dont control emotions.

They listen. They understand. They empathize.

Create a safe space, not an emotional cage.

Fixing every problem immediately isnt the goal.

Its being present, understanding nuances, and collaborating to find solutions.

Leadership isnt a one-person show.

You wont succeed unless you learn to work with your team

And that starts with letting them express themselves.

Stop saying “You shouldnt feel this way.”

Heres what you should do, and its easy.

→ Dont try to control emotions → Welcome diverse, genuine human emotions → Embrace modern leadership

#Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #EmpathyInLeadership

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