2 Vital Lessons I Learned from My First Leadership Role in Retail: Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Responsibility

by Kim Fitkin - 7/6/2023

2 Vital Lessons I Learned from My First Leadership Role in Retail: Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Responsibility

My first manager role was as a Sales Lead at a large mall retailer.

I worked retail all through college and when I graduated I wanted more responsibility. (And more money ๐Ÿ’ฐ)

Leadership felt like the natural next step for me.

But I wasnโ€™t quite ready and I stumbled my way through some new challenges. Here are two big ones. Hopefully, you can learn from them.

๐Ÿญ/ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—œ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต

I had built great relationships with the team before being promoted.

I figured itโ€™d be really easy to talk with them. To get them to do what I wanted them to do.

But I wanted them to like me and not view me as โ€œbossyโ€.

I let them come in late. Leave early. Not fold to standard. Not tuck tags in. (May sound silly, but retail is all about the brand image).

Excuses didnโ€™t fly with my Store Manager and it was my job on the line if things didnโ€™t get done.

I learned quickly that I was held accountable for the teamโ€™s performance. I had to change my approach.

I had to put being effective above being liked.

The funny thing is, teams love an effective manager!

๐Ÿฎ/ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐—ท๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ (๐—œ๐—–) ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€

When I got promoted I was like โ€œFinally! No more having to ring at the register.โ€

But when the rush happened, we needed every register open, who do you think had to ring? I did.

And I still was responsible for managing shifts, breaks, zone coverage and schedules.

I had to figure out how to balance my management responsibilities with my IC ones.

I couldnโ€™t always be the one at the register since I had to run the floor. But I needed to be able to switch roles when the store needed me to.

This meant checking my ego and practicing ownership.


There are a lot more lessons I learned as I continued on my leadership journey for the next 15 years. But these are great things to watch for and focus on when youโ€™re first promoted to lead a team.

What was your biggest challenge when you were first promoted to a leadership role?

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